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The Quiet Grief of Parenting a Child With Depression

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No one really talks about the mental and emotional toll depression takes on those trying to love the person who is struggling. No one talks about how it is often more of a marathon than a sprint.  As the mother of a child who suffers with clinical depression, and drawing from my training and experience as a social worker, I have found that there is a great deal of information available about treatment modalities, psychotropic medications, and how to support the individual living with the diagnosis. There is far less information about the sleepless nights spent worrying, the seasons when no matter how much love you pour into your child, they cannot feel it, and the reality that therapy and medication do not always provide a quick fix - or sometimes, what feels like any fix at all. There is even less information about the numbness, anger, exhaustion, and grief that caregivers begin to feel after years of difficult conversations with their child. No one talks about the constant ...

Parenting Through the Unexpected: Type 1 Diabetes, Homeschooling, and Finding Our Way

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Our journey to homeschooling did not come in the typical way. I hadn’t researched for years like some parents do; I hadn’t dreamed about unhurried nature walks, teaching my children how to read, and learning fractions while baking our favorite cookies. We came to homeschooling by way of fear and uncertainty that only comes with an unexpected medical diagnosis.  The irony is that I, myself, had been homeschooled from middle school through high school. I had loved it as a teenager and was proud to have it as part of my history and heritage. However, when my husband and I started having children, the conversation about educational choices never came up, and it never occurred to me that we would choose it as an option. Which is why, when my two younger children started begging me to be homeschooled in the fall of 2024, I literally found myself laughing out loud and saying things like “Nope… nope on a rope. Not unless there is a significant medical issue….” My children persisted; so ...